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Still Reaching
How to reconnect with a wife or girlfriend who's pulled away, without pushing her further. Eleven short chapters, written for men, with nothing you'd need to hide from her.
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Still Reaching
How to reconnect with a wife or girlfriend who's pulled away, without pushing her further.
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What's inside
- 1
Before you start
Who this is for, what it isn't, and a safety note.
- 2
What's really happening
Why she pulled away, and why it rarely arrives as an announcement.
- 3
Why your good days don't count yet
Confirmation bias, in plain English, and why you must never point it out to her.
- 4
Her guard is up
What a guard actually is, and the ten-minute reset that lowers it.
- 5
The key is no pressure
Pressure versus no pressure, side by side.
- 6
Reaches
The small moments that matter, and how to catch them.
- 7
Listen 80, talk 20
Questions that open doors, with a worked example.
- 8
Frost patterns to drop
The four habits that do the most damage, and what to do instead.
- 9
Raising something hard
How to start gently, and how to repair a moment that goes wrong.
- 10
If she's moved out or said it's over
What still helps when you’re living apart.
- 11
A 30-day plan
One focus per week, with a version for men living apart.
It finishes with looking after yourself, and where to get more help, including counselling and helplines for the UK and US.
Which format?
Keeps the design, including the app screenshots and the pressure comparison. Sized to read on a phone. Best if you're reading on your phone or laptop.
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